
Guess what? I switched days. Just to check if you're keeping up. And possibly because it's the only day this week I'll post, so let's just pretend it's Sunday, ok? Okay. And yes, the picture has nothing to do with anything except I like it. Here's the questions. Put your weapons down and listen:
Blogging Mama Andrea asks, "Can I find out (a) what exactly a true Yogini does, and (b) how long did you train to become one?" I did explain in the last Ask the Blogging Yogini post what a real yogini is, so you can read there to catch up. In terms of what I wrote there, daily I do mantra meditation, I study eastern philosophy, I visit temples, I sometimes go to lectures, I sometimes give them, I speak with others, I chant, I sing bhajans (devotional songs), I seek guidance from spiritually advanced elders, I have a spiritual master, and I live in a holy place that makes these things more accessible and a natural part of daily life. I've been doing it for over twenty years and it's an ongoing process, so I don't think the "training" ever stops.
The delicious Alix asks, "Did you read the book Eat Pray Love? What was your honest impression?" I did read it, and I loved the Italy portion. The book itself was a bit of a letdown, as I kind of felt that something like that should have been inspiring and give its readers something solid. But what is inspiring about a book that says "I can take a year off and indulge myself and in the end not much changed but gee I had fun and now I'm going to tell you about it." Doesn't really do much for me, but when we say that people criticize us for being negative or jealous. I definitely was jealous about Italy :) But the rest? A waste of time. I found the Indian portion particularly irritating, as it was some unsubstantiated yet popular guru-type, and sitting in caves and meditating is something that the uneducated might perceive as a good thing, but which is an illusion of mammoth proportions and just more of that good old Indian trickery and cheating that's been going on for eons. It's not a bona fide process for self realization or anything else: it's just a joke. An elaborate and costly one, but a joke. I was also irritated that the author called the guru at that ashram the person who had contributed the most Indian philosophical literature to the English reading market. This is a load of old codswollop, an unsubstantiated and false claim that can be refuted in one minute flat by anyone with knowledge of these topics. So I didn't like that kind of buffoonery. Typically, the least substantial and most superficial stuff is always made into Hollywood movies. Que sera sera....I hope no one actually thinks it's anything but fiction...
The elusive Blu wrote in regard to the post on Treaty that I had put up, and says, "Sad about the treaty which was a broken promise, so will something bad happen to the men who broke their promise?" As a wise man once said, Blu, "what goes around comes around." Yes, the same ill-treatment will be visited upon those who inflicted it. That's one of the laws of material nature, and it's unavoidable.
Sweta asks, "Is it always vital to know what you exactly want from life, or can knowing what you don't want sometimes make up for not knowing what you want?" Well, sure: the process of elimination leads us eventually to what we *do* want. But I don't think it entirely "makes up for not knowing what you want." As for knowing exactly what you want from life: is there a need? I know people who are clear on exactly what they want, but they're not nice, their goals are superfluous and transient, but their attachment to their way, their goals, their needs are all very overwhelming and put me off. I think it's possibly easier to learn what the purpose of life is, and then just get on with life, knowing that whatever comes at you was meant to be, and maintaining a consciousness that is governed by the spiritual energy, not the temporary, distracting material energy.
That was deep, wasn't it? :)



51 of you added your thoughts:
I've always believed in what goes around comes around and have seen it happen many times.
Otherwise I was just checking in to see how you were because I haven't heard from you for a while. I hope you are well and enjoying your life there. I would like to hear more about it.
Life is a continuous learning process and the learning never stops.....yes, that's it!
So glad to hear there is someone else out there who shares my opinion of Eat Pray Love. That book rather irritated me.
I'm easy. All I want is happiness. The trick is just figuring which way I want to go about gettin it!
hey buddy..good i came across yr blog..i dont have to ever meet u..i can feel the presence of a gr8 friend out der in durgapur sitting here in sharjah..cheers ya..keep up the gr8 work..u r a yogini..so i dont have to say..god is always with u and within u..hehhe
Yes - it was deep and also inspiring! Very satisfying answers!
I did enjoy Eat Pray Love but I never thought it was factual. Inspirational? Yes. I was launching on my own journey at the time. xx
Inspiration to do what? It's quite a confused melee of emotion and misguided searching....
I liked Eat Pray Love sort of like the Bridget Jones books. Easy to read fluffy vacation reading.
I did enjoy the escapism/fantasy of that travel adventure, but the spiritual part bugged me.
I only needed a yogini to spell it out for me. Thanks for that.
I thought Eat Pray Love was a decent read but her take on NOT having children really irked my soul. Then again, I'm glad she didn't have children if she didn't want them.
I've found far more inspirational things in my life closer to home.
Thank you Braja! I love your answer and I was kind of expecting something like that. I, having no idea how authentic any of the spiritual part was, am happy to know finally. My sister hated the book and called Elizabeth Gilbert a whiney spoilied brat. Sure, she embodied those elements, but the point was that her journey would bring her through all that into enlightenment. Whether or not that ever happened is what baffles me. She certainly talked the talk, but did she walk the walk? Hmmmm..... I saw Elizabeth doing a post book tour interview on Oprah (trust me, that was an anomaly, I never watch Oprah) and she had that serene Virgin Mary countenance about her, but something seemed very fishy about her. I don't know how I feel about Elizabeth the Enlightened. The book was entertaining though, and I did like her literary style. In the end, I agree with your assessment. Eat, Pray, Love was not much more than a screen play. And oh - head's up - Julia Roberts is playing Elizabeth Gilbert and they are filming somewhere in your neck of the woods.
PS: Thanks for calling me delicious. Best. Compliment. Ever!
the water was deep but i ejoyed the swim...you just made Alx's millenium. smiles.
I'm a big believer in what comes around goes around...sometimes it just takes too long! Not a patient person I guess.
I LOVE your response to Sweta's query!
"just get on with life, knowing that whatever comes at you was meant to be...'
Awesome words, as is the part about not knowing exactly what you want from life being okay.
My 18 year old has her life planned for the next 60 years. But I'm sure life has other ideas for her, for us all.
impressive. as usual.
you are really an educator.
not sur there is a higher calling.
and i cant type for -.
Eat pray and love? At least I accomplish one of those!
So if I'm guilty of punishing Dawn, I'm going to get mine, right? I think I probably deserve it. Thanks for making me think. It hurt, but thanks.
Thanks for answering my question. I felt the same about Eat Love Pray, loved Italy but once she moved to India I stopped reading it and have never finished the book. I don't if it was because I couldn't relate to what she was saying or I just thought it strange but it didn't ring very true for me.
Well, I've been meaning to add you to my blog list for awhile now, just been lazy or busy.
The lady I am currently doing yoga with is from India. She's 74, the baby of her family and she leaves today to go back to visit her surviving siblings for 5 weeks.
Nice and impressive !! Lovely !!Unseen Rajasthan
I hope you answer my private question to you about a recipe for fish pickle. If you need to put it into context, please also explain how one makes it while seeking moksha - and staying conscious with the spicy heat.
You're very deep Yogini Braja. And I actually threw my copy of Eat. Pray. Love. across the room. Not out of jealousy but out of annoyance that I had wasted so much of my time reading it. I (unlike you) am not deep.
Braja, I know nothing of Eastern thought. Nothing. I follow your posts because I sense that there is an intelligent, articulate, and spiritual being presenting ideas, sharing experiences. I shall have to educate myself.
I did the same...:))
Seriously. It frankly pissed me off. That book was as deep as a 3 day puddle in summer...
Bill: Your wish will be fulfilled....
I like that picture too. Alot. And i like you. Thank you for sharing Braja, it's always so interesting coming here to India.
♥ lori
Yes, it was deep. Great answers.
Definitely what goes around comes around.
Happy Belated Blogiversary!
This has very little to do with this post as a whole, for I'm way too excited to make a concise comment (but I'll be back for that) I just wanted to say that what you do is amazing. I can't wait to go back in blog-time and read the recycled wisdom.
Alix was right you are an incredible person. I'm glad she made me get out from under my rock and become a follower of this piece of wonder.
P.S. I hit the button thing, and guess what? POOH!
Thanks for making Alix's day-- She IS delicious!
And thanks for your words of wisdom. More please.
xo
"That was deep, wasn't it?"
Ever so. Or maybe life is like a beanstalk.
Know what I like about this blog? I get to write in the future.
Eat, Pray, Love - I enjoyed the time in Italy as well. Disappointed in the others.
I like that picture also.
Douglas: Wait til new years....that's when I really blow your mind....
:))
Ah, my favorite was the last one. And I know some not so nice people who 'have it all figured out' too. lol.
I prefer to enjoy my mistakes and treasure my giggles. I'm pretty sure somewhere in there is the path I'm seeking...I'm just doing a bit of sightseeing along the way.
:)
I loved Eat, Pray, Love because I am not the type to be in a shitty relationship and leave. I just sit in the bathroom and cry. I also never wanted children so I don't think that's a fair critique of anyone.
The guru Gilbert speaks of is rather well known globally and having had only one experience with her, I can tell you that she is quite magical and spiritual.
I loved that Gilbert hated the long ass meditations. I hate them too and thought I was alone in all that. Another woman followed her book and went to all the places and did all the things that Gilbert did and it changed her life. She didn't write a book about it though.
Spirituality is experienced differently for everyone. As is God, Allah, Buddha.
Suzy: I don't know what "magical" means in terms of spirituality, and what the two have to do with each other, but I'm happy you found a little electric buzz from someone.....
Yes spirituality IS experienced differently by everyone: if they've even tapped into it. Mostly it's some bogus scam that fools call "spirituality" but which has little or nothing to do with it. Spirituality is a science, and you either know it or you don't. It's not up for putting your own "mood" on it....it is or it isn't. Sadly, not many people are educated enough to realize that....
Hi Suzy, Hi Braja. I should be asleep in bed. But I came over to see what Braja had to say not on a Sunday.
I read Eat Pray Love a couple years ago, and not with a critical eye. Don't know if I could do that now that I'm all writey-writey. Anyway, I enjoyed her self-depricating humor and the journey but got annoyed with the whole house-buying fiasco plot twist at the end.
I was surprised by how super smart she is, when I listened to her lecture on TED. I like it, and her discussion on the artist's muse has been helpful to me personally.
Good lord, I'm tired. I promised myself I'd shut this thing down hours ago.
You always provide food for thought!
Yes, that was deep but very interesting to read your thoughts on these things. I like that picture too. There's something about it.
Thanks, Braja!! I'm here a bit late, I was expecting the answer on Sunday :) I loved the way you answered my question.
Talking of riding a bus to India, have you read Magic Bus?
Frankly, I haven't had time to read with all this BLOGGING.
And yes, I am a firm believer in what goes around comes around.
:-)
I was glad to hear that you didn't care for the book. I've resisted picking it up although it's one of the few english books available here.
You said, "bafoonery".
We both know it's not a word.
But I love that word.
Bafoonery is a word, isn't it? In the Braja Webster's Dictionary, edited by the Janie, all words are legal and binding.
Okay, nuff of that stuff. (Nuff is a word, too.)
Speaking of real words, Braja, love your answers. You are SOOOO deep!
xoxoxoxoxo
I've never read Eat Pray Love. I've heard about it though. Aren't they making a movie about it? I thought I heard something about Julia Roberts being in it. Maybe that was something else though.
If you come on a Sunday expecting "Ask A Blogging Yogini", and you find it right where you expected it to be, then it doesn't matter if it was written on a Wednesday.
Because all is right with your world.
I couldn't get past the first few paragraphs of Eat...
I found it to be a bit light on substance, which is fine, I guess, but not very often do I read an entire novel of light observations, If I'm reading an actual novel, I want more.. I read short stories for the light stuff. And mags and some blogs and the odd bathroom wall.
But my BF and polar opposite loved that book, especially Italy. Then again, she loved The Secret", and I couldn't get past the first few paragraphs. Yawn.
But I wouldn't mind taking the same tour : ) I think it would be wonderful to just fuck off like that, go where you want, do what you want.
That was most cool and honest. It's important we learn to be at ease with insecurity.
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